Answers In Love

Winning at Life God's Way

Afraid to talk about a problem?

Feature Box

Sign up below to receive my free PDF, “How to Talk about a Problem without Starting a Fight.”

How to Make Peace with Someone You Care about before the Holidays Begin

  Photo by Laurence Cruz on Unsplash Holidays are joyful, right? Not always. We enjoy gathering, giving and celebrating but there’s another side to the story.

How to Build an Enjoyable Marriage That Lasts

Do you enjoy your marriage? I hope so. I still remember hearing my friend’s grandmother say when I was young, “There’s nothing better than a good marriage and nothing worse than a bad […]

The Smartest Way to Respond when Trouble Strikes

Photo courtesy of Unsplash Life is hard and dangerous. Reports of devastating hurricanes and now mass murder break our hearts. Disasters dominate national news while private catastrophes unfold around us. A steady diet […]

How To Tame a Really Scary Conflict Before It Spins Out of Control

Photo courtesy of Unsplash Unwanted and upsetting conflicts happen. They’re as old as human history. A client of mine named Christine encountered a difficult conflict one time. She didn’t know what to do […]

Storm Watch! 4 Ways to Get Ready

  It’s awful to think of Hurricane Irma approaching our shores on the heels of Harvey. Folks in Irma’s way are preparing for trouble. They’re fleeing homes they may never see again. Normal […]

4 Things You Must Do to Recover when Disaster Rocks Your World

  Photo by Kyle Broad on Unsplash Historic rainfall brought disaster to Houston last week. America looked on with compassion then pitched in to help. I’ve done something to help. Have you? As […]

Want More than “Awesome” from Monday’s Eclipse? Try This.

  This picture shows me enjoying Monday’s TOTAL solar eclipse with husband Charlie and others not shown.  Everyone present marveled to see the sun hidden by the moon’s silhouette and experience midday darkness. […]

6 Ways to Thrive (Not Just Survive) after You Fail

photo courtesy of Unsplash Last week I described my friend’s pain after she suffered a setback and thought of herself as a failure. Her suffering caused me to think how badly we need […]

Feeling Dumb? Read This to Feel Better!

A few weeks ago I attended a lunch reunion with a group of friends. The event began joyfully. However, the mood grew somber when one friend revealed that an important part of her […]

6 Steps to Finally Making the Change You Want

Photo courtesy of Unsplash People say leopards don’t change their spots. True, but we’re not leopards. People change. Can you think of some change you’d like to make to improve your life? Have […]